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I Never Called It Rape [Download] ➾ I Never Called It Rape By Robin Warshaw – Natus-physiotherapy.co.uk The classic book that broke new ground by thoroughly reporting on the widespread problem of date and acquaintance rape has now been completely updated to include recent studies, issues, current events The classic book that broke new Called It ePUB ´ ground by thoroughly reporting on the widespread problem of date and acquaintance rape has now been completely updated to include recent studies, issues, current events, and controversies.


10 thoughts on “I Never Called It Rape

  1. Wagatwe Wanjuki Wagatwe Wanjuki says:

    While it may have been revolutionary for its time, this book has some victim blaming in it and quite a few outdated views involving sexual violence I read it for a class to be certified as a rape crisis counselor and my classmates all urged the professor to remove it from the curriculum next year and find somethingrecent and better overall.


  2. Shanice Mcbean Shanice Mcbean says:

    I Never Called It Rape by Robin Warshaw was a seminal book of it s time, and for that it must be given credit I Never Called It Rape contributed to a process of changing the very cultural lens through which the most common form of rape that between people who are known to each other is viewed.Seen as either honest mistakes , seduction , provocation or miscommunications , acquaintance rape has historically and remains a less serious form of abuse than stranger rape This, desp I Never Called It Rape by Robin Warshaw was a seminal book of it s time, and for that it must be given credit I Never Called It Rape contributed to a process of changing the very cultural lens through which the most common form of rape that between people who are known to each other is viewed.Seen as either honest mistakes , seduction , provocation or miscommunications , acquaintance rape has historically and remains a less serious form of abuse than stranger rape This, despite the fact that acquaintance rape survivors, as Warshaw points out, experience just as much post rape trauma and anxiety as stranger rape survivors In fact, due to the disbelief and doubt, the social denigration and belittling of acquaintance rape and the confusion caused by someone you trust abusing you, survivors of acquaintance rape often experience longer andintense bouts of trauma according to Warshaw In society stranger rape survivors are most often accepted as legitimate victims and often start the process of recovery sooner than acquaintance rape survivors.There is a bitty irony and gross perversity, then, in the disbelief of acquaintance survivors under the guise that it s less serious This trope actually causes acquaintance survivors to suffer, on average, longer term trauma than victims of traditional , violent stranger rapes.That said, the book read by a committed feminist today reads like feminist common sense And actually in some places it reads in quite a reactionary fashion perhaps another mark of its age.For example, there s an entire chapter dedicated to advising women on what behaviours they should adopt or do less of in order to minimize the chances of being raped Now, on the one hand this seems to make sense Around 40% of acquaintance rape survivors were intoxicated when they were raped according to the book Surely it makes sense to tell women to drink less, then In fact this misses several important things.But what actually bypasses Warshaw is that there is reactionary ideological import to the kind of narrative that advises women to alter their behaviour It completely skirts the question looking at the social conditions under which rapists themselves are created and reproduced.We recognise this narrative everywhere we look in neo liberal, austerity Britain If you just work harder, you ll be able to overcome poverty If you just ignore it, racism will disappear If you just drink less, you won t be raped All of these ideas are part of what I ve called elsewhere the ideological emporium that gets us individualising our oppression, rather than understanding it s context and challenging the hegemony that apologizes for and reproduces rape.This omission shows in Warshaw book More concerned about advising women what they can do the reduce the risk of rape, she ignores the plethora of ways a violent, greedy capitalist society itself creates the conditions for depressingly high levels of rape in all countries Hence the book totally fails to even begin to address longer term solutions that seriously challenge the roots of rape While I don t pretend to have high knowledge of what those roots are and how we challenge them, Warshaw ends up relying on piecemeal strategies of education and teaching people not to rape While education is important, it doesn t offer a strategy for destroying or even challenging the social relations that reproduce misogynistic violence.Resisting this narrative is deeply important, especially in a context where immigrants, black people and the working class as a whole is being blamed for it s own oppression Resisting this narrative allows us to centre our anger on the structures of power and social relations under capitalism that make rape a continual part of the drudgery of our lives


  3. erin erin says:

    Robin Warshaw clearly outlines date acquaintance rape in this book, funded by the Center for Antisocial and Violent Behavior of the National Institute of Mental Health and executed under the banner of Ms Magazine While a bit dated published first in 1988 , this book captures the emergence of date acquaintance rape as well as what that has meant to U.S American society at large.Part scientific study, journalistic expose, and self help book, I Never Called It Rape has much to offer It brings Robin Warshaw clearly outlines date acquaintance rape in this book, funded by the Center for Antisocial and Violent Behavior of the National Institute of Mental Health and executed under the banner of Ms Magazine While a bit dated published first in 1988 , this book captures the emergence of date acquaintance rape as well as what that has meant to U.S American society at large.Part scientific study, journalistic expose, and self help book, I Never Called It Rape has much to offer It brings impressive statistics and thorough research to the table to help solidify the existence of date acquaintance rape, and the writing style is nonacademic, so it is very accessible Additionally, Mary P Koss work, heading the study that would birth this book, is groundbreaking and sound.Be warned, this book relies heavily on relaying personal stories of date acquaintance rape, and as such it can be very difficult to read However, a book on a subject so grave doesn t need to be enjoyable.I found this book to be a little repetitive although I am certain this was a tool often used in certain kinds of philosophical arguments purposely employed to impress ideas on the reader Equally, some of the personal stories might work to discredit some experiences of rape sexual coercion that were not so extreme or that werefuzzy Also, regardless of Warshaw s disclaimers that date acquaintance rape happens throughout diverse communities, she tended to focus on date acquaintance rape the college experience Warshaw does write that her focus reflected data found on where date acquaintance rapes are most likely to occur, and she writes about non college aged women who have survived rape, but ultimately this focus made the book feel a little one sided to me.Even so, I would highly recommend this book to anyone interested in rape, sexual politics, sociology, psychology, gender studies, or, really, anyone who is interested in having a fuller understanding of what it is to be human


  4. Heather Heather says:

    I cannot begin to explain how important this book is to read Although it is fairly old, the statistics are still relevant and the topics need to be looked at and discussed Rape is still a some what hush hush problem because it s a difficult topic to discuss Aquaintance rape is misunderstood, or not understood at all which is why I loved this book It explains all the many different types of aquaintance rape from that one date guy who rapes the girl to the case of a husband who rapes his wif I cannot begin to explain how important this book is to read Although it is fairly old, the statistics are still relevant and the topics need to be looked at and discussed Rape is still a some what hush hush problem because it s a difficult topic to discuss Aquaintance rape is misunderstood, or not understood at all which is why I loved this book It explains all the many different types of aquaintance rape from that one date guy who rapes the girl to the case of a husband who rapes his wife Just because a woman or man is dating someone, it does not give the significant other the right to rape them Just because the victim knew their attacker doesn t make it less of a rape I HIGHLY recommend this book to EVERYONE Men and women alike, as well as rape victims survivors It has a section on how loved ones can help someone who has been raped as well as people who have just been raped I really like this report book and it is a short read so there really is no excuse not to pick it up and read it


  5. Rhonda Rae Baker Rhonda Rae Baker says:

    This is a difficult subject but extremely important I wasn t surprised about the statistics and saddened by how the victims are treatedexperienced many of these things first hand.Be careful if you have been through this as the material may bring up body memories and emotions I had to tread with a light foot and swallow bite sized pieces in order to protect myself.I m greatly inspired to continue writing my own memoirs For it is in sharing our stories that we are able to heal not only oursel This is a difficult subject but extremely important I wasn t surprised about the statistics and saddened by how the victims are treatedexperienced many of these things first hand.Be careful if you have been through this as the material may bring up body memories and emotions I had to tread with a light foot and swallow bite sized pieces in order to protect myself.I m greatly inspired to continue writing my own memoirs For it is in sharing our stories that we are able to heal not only ourselves but others.Please read this


  6. Gina Gina says:

    24 years later, it s disappointing how timely this feels.And I do wonder if the survey were taken again if we would find that some of the numbers have improved, but there is still too much evidence that too many men do not see that women should be able to control access to their bodies The material is handled very well, and the suggestions are pretty practical I can imagine some criticism of the emphasis on self defense, but even with that the book does talk about teaching men not to rape, and 24 years later, it s disappointing how timely this feels.And I do wonder if the survey were taken again if we would find that some of the numbers have improved, but there is still too much evidence that too many men do not see that women should be able to control access to their bodies The material is handled very well, and the suggestions are pretty practical I can imagine some criticism of the emphasis on self defense, but even with that the book does talk about teaching men not to rape, and the merit of that has been pretty well established by now


  7. Autumn Autumn says:

    This book isn t what generally comes to mind when I try to think of four star reading, but it s a fair assessment for the subject it takes on and the sheer volume of information it attempts to convey The downside of reading it in 2010, of course, is that the information is dated, so some of the recommendations that it stressed as critical such as greater education on college campuses of the dangers posed by binge drinking, frat parties or even walking alone at night are now common The This book isn t what generally comes to mind when I try to think of four star reading, but it s a fair assessment for the subject it takes on and the sheer volume of information it attempts to convey The downside of reading it in 2010, of course, is that the information is dated, so some of the recommendations that it stressed as critical such as greater education on college campuses of the dangers posed by binge drinking, frat parties or even walking alone at night are now common The writer clearly has a bias, which is something I tend not to favor in books But I respected her perspective and her attempt to educate readers about the volume of acquaintance and date rapes, the impact such attacks have on women, how hard it is for victims to speak up and what typically happens when they do It s really too bad there isn t acurrent volume


  8. Marina Marina says:

    Quick, easy read, but very heavy I appreciate how many stories this book had, making the content very accessible and understandable You can read rape theory all you want, but it doesn t click until you can imagine the details of the situation unfolding and realize situations in your circles where this might have is happening The one thing is that they present their statistics as hardcore fact, which is a little difficult to swallow I know it s not meant to be a totally scientific statsy book Quick, easy read, but very heavy I appreciate how many stories this book had, making the content very accessible and understandable You can read rape theory all you want, but it doesn t click until you can imagine the details of the situation unfolding and realize situations in your circles where this might have is happening The one thing is that they present their statistics as hardcore fact, which is a little difficult to swallow I know it s not meant to be a totally scientific statsy book, but I think you always need to be careful about stats Additionally, be a littlecareful about dismissing all rapes other than male on female rapes as a infinitesimally small likelihood and not worth talking about, because that s a sweeping, dumb assumption and if you re going to use the she her hers series throughout the book, you ve gotta do a better job defending your reasoning


  9. Robin Robin says:

    This took longer than it should have to finish, I guess because I didn t connect with the author s writing I found her language polarizing, problematic, and patronizing For instance, there s a part where the author mentions that most women think of rapists as strangers that are black, Hispanic, or other minorities and then are shocked when it turns out to be regular guys Then she goes on to say, where once they feared strange men as they were taught to, they now fear strange men and all This took longer than it should have to finish, I guess because I didn t connect with the author s writing I found her language polarizing, problematic, and patronizing For instance, there s a part where the author mentions that most women think of rapists as strangers that are black, Hispanic, or other minorities and then are shocked when it turns out to be regular guys Then she goes on to say, where once they feared strange men as they were taught to, they now fear strange men and all the men they know Even though 57% of rapists are white men, somehow white men are still regular and minorities are strange In another passage where she discusses preventative measures when you re being raped, you could always pick your nose, belch, and fart 2.5 stars


  10. Becca Becca says:

    This is a good book for anyone who has survived sexual assault or rape from a friend or acquaintance I highly recommend it as part of the healing process of a double betrayal not only the physical attack, but also the loss of trust of a friend.


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